their partner’s unilateral decision to abort, leaving them feeling helpless, depressed and angry. In other cases they failed to stand up to protect their child, striking at their identity as a father who protects his family. (2) Of course our culture’s image of a successful man does not include depression or weakness, so many men are very successful at deeply repressing these feelings. But the pain still exists, and can lead to drug abuse, anger issues, and risky behaviors.(2) It is not hard to see how these effects might contribute to eventually committing a crime and landing in prison. Of course female prisoners are also likely to be post-abortive. One female post-abortive prisoner reported that a large majority of the women she encountered in prison were also post-abortive. (3) Post-abortive women are 5 times more likely to engage in alcohol and drug abuse, and are likely to eventually live in poverty as a single mother.(4)
Military personnel are also affected by abortion. Military life has many stressors and challenges, with frequent moves and lengthy deployments. Female military personnel may feel pressure to continue their service, and military wives may well feel unable to handle another child. Military clinics report that many female military and dependents come to the clinic to verify a pregnancy but never come back for prenatal care. An abortion, however, adds more stress and conflict to their lives. Young soldiers eventually become veterans, and suicide rates among young veterans are rising at a disturbing rate. Unresolved abortion grief may be a factor in many of these suicides.(5)
1. Kevin Burke,
Tears of the Fisherman, 2017. Chapter 4 “Proclaiming Liberty to the Captives”.
2. Burke, Chapters 2 and 3. “The Silence of Adam” and “Can Men Experience Abortion as a Trauma?”
3.
http://afterabortion.org/1999/beyond-the-bars-post-abortion-ministries-reach-out-to-women-in-prison/
4.
http://www.theunchoice.com/pdf/OnePageFactSheets/PsychologicalRisksSheet1.pdf
5. Burke, Chapter 6, “Water and Bridges, Relationships after Abortion”.